Hey queers! In this video I provide some flirting tips for shy girls (well all girls really!) I recommend that you apply these flirting tips for girls the next time you spot a cute girl across from you at the bar or at school or ya know, wherever ;) Seriously though, I hope this video gave you some real life flirting advice on how to flirt with your crush if you're a little shy or needed some dating advice!! :)
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Usually when i see someone attractive i plan loads of convos and good things to say in my head for when we talk but the second i talk to them i forget it all and nothing comes out except ‘so the weathers pretty shit rn eh?’ I hate it aha
Dutchy Here s my story:
So my crush is short, slim, perfect body, big almond shaped hazel eyes, dark curly hair with blonde highlights, big fluffy lips, and she wears braces. We were in the same school but shes 9th grade now (im 8th) and i had a crush on her since i first saw her(i first met her 6 years ago). I never tought that she will ever talk to me because she is really popular. This year i started talking to her everyday, because we also play basketball in the same team. She saw the real me, the soft me and the vulnerable me. So she decided to show me her vulnerable side. Thats how we got really close. But something changed in a basketball camp. We were in the bus,(we had a night road) and she came and sat between me and a guy. She layed her head on my shoulder and i layed my head on her head(we always do that when we sit one next to another). Idk how or when i felt asleep but when i woke up i was laying my head on her shoulder and her head was on mines, and she was holding my hand. We slept like that until the bus stopped to go to a gas station and she asked me if i could go with her at the toilet and i said yes. As we got off the bus she showed me her hand like she wanted me to grab it and thats exactly what i did.
Some days into the camp she saw me sad and came up to me and said :Its because of your best friend right?(idk how she knew) "Well dont worry, im here for you" she grabbed my head and kisses my forehead and said "Ill never ever leave you".
Another thing she did was when we were watching a game, and she came and sat next to me. She always tries to make body contact with me. I was looking into my phone and she was looking at me and just wrapped my hair around the ear and smiled. Later we got out of the gym bcs it was the 2nd half, and we went to a close market to buy food. Our friends were in front of us and she came next to me and wrapped around my amr and held it really tight.
And the last thing ill tell you is when we hda basketball party bcs christmas idk, there was no place for her to sit. She came and sat on my laps and asked me if im okay with it or if i can see. Later i started holding her hips and she turned around, hugged me and kissed my cheek.
Im still not sure if she likes me or not...
I saw this fine girl at a party n looked at her like a million times, I caught her staring at me once n my gay heart was like omfg n I looked away... FUCK I LOST MY CHANCE 🤦🏻♀️😪 I'm still in love wit her n ion know her 💔
i'm pansexual and i have the biggest crush on this cute girl at my school. he's in my athletics and study hall class. we follow each other on instagram and she recently came out as bisexual and keeps describing her crush during cute little rants and shit. all the information low-key links to me, like every single detail ??? it's low-key weird and i have a feeling i'm just being delusional and she doesn't like me back and i'm sad lmao but this helped me so i can flirt with the girl of my dreams and maybe not be a single piece of shit. hawyee
my friend has 100/10 flirting skills. observe.
me: no one would care if I died (we say edgy things like this all the time, don't worry)
her: uhhhhhHHH I'd care
me: why lmao
her: umm... uhh... bECAUSE I CAN...?
me: yeah ok
us girls are great at this.
I've liked this girl at my school, all of my friends know her. I have yet to talk to her, though. We've made a lot of eye contact, but I think she thinks i'm creepy. She seems straight, but she seems interested. I'm a really anxious person, I can hardly talk to anyone. Can someone help me?
I like girls with bushy hair.... there is this one girl that i get soo nervous around.... one day on this bus on the way to home there was no other seats to sit in for her, usually i dont let anybody sit with me but i just had to sit with her, so i let her. She loves reading books and i like anime, so that is what we talked about. I think i did a pretty good job at talking to her, just needed more tips and this video helped a lot!
sometimes i just wanna talk to a gay or bi girl because i wanna just relate to what she says and stuff, there are so many bi/gay girls in the comments but ive never talked to onee 😞.. ive never talked to a gay person before 😭
I recently started to talk to a girl, i somehow knew that she s bi(i asked her on tellonym and she covered and said that she actually is) idk how i simply felt it. We play basketball (different teams) and i came to see her team play, but there was a game before them. So as we waited on the ground we got bored. She just looked at me and said "Wow you look nice today" with a pretty serious voice and i was like who me yuck. Later, a girl sat in my laps and i was sitting next to my crush, and idk why i layed my head on her laps and she wrapped my hair around my right ear like 5 times and she played with my hair and she was caressing me and i felt so gooood🥰. Unfortunately the game started and she had to go :(. After that day we started talking like everyday trough pictures on instagram, and i remember i had a breakdown and i told all of my problems to her and she really cared. She keeps sending me cute posts.. i remember that we were playing trough photos X and O and i said "ok im O" and she said "no, you are U because i have feelings for U" or something like that 🥰🥰. She had a game yesterday and ofc i went to see it(she didnt play much bcs she was sick) and i know a lot of girls from her team. One of my best friends started crying in the locker room after the game because of the loss and i tried to comfort her. Later the other girls came into the locker room and I finally saw my crush and i though lol ok its going to be wierd and she just came in front of me and gave me a huge warm smile and hugged me soooooo tight 🥰. Do you think it means something?
claudiablue dude my crush came to see my game and when i came out of the locker room after the game she came running at me and hugged me soooo tight and held me for like 20 seconds, then she wrapped her arm around my shoulder and i was eating a sandwich lol. It was sooo cute😍. One of the girls from my team told me that my crush asked where was I(i was late with my sister for the game for some reason) and i was like wait wtf rlly omg🥰
anonim awwe thats so cute😍oof just date her already!😆
btw i checked ur ig, ur so pretty!😍😊 so i do have an ig too but i wont use it till the end of this school year my ig is @deda_klaudja and my name isnt with a C but i put it like that cause its easier, check me out gurl😜
claudiablue no we re not dating, not yet i mean i told her that i have to go to see a game and i was supposed to play but i would feel like shit sitting outside of the court and she said "Id take you to my house but im not in the town😫❤️❤️" and i was like wait u actually said that? AND SHE KEEPS CALLING ME BABY GURL AND MY HEART GOES CRAZY WHEN SHE DOES THAT❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i asked her why do i feel so good when she calls me baby gurl and she said "cause i give you affection by saying that ❤️"
Want to tell my friend I'm gay not bi but I feel like she'll think i like her (i did once and if it ever goes anywhere, I wont be mad tbh, but I'm not going to make an effort) but she just asked out my crush today and I hate it, but I'm not going to be ride or bother their relationship.. anyway, I REALLY like some of my friends (I'm not a gay hoe lol) but i noticed the more lesbian I've become, the more personality has played in role of my liking people, and looks have gotten almost nothing to do with it. Anyway, I like one of my friends a lot, but we are the type of friends that are good friends, but dont really talk about feelings in a serious way, and tease each other (my nickname is trashcan for her, and when she calls me that, I say true, and she says "awww, no i was kidding" and it makes me feel like she cares, but she does that to everyone. Ughhhhh
I have an online girlfriend and I LOVE flirting with her. I do it once in a while. Though, she is different from others I've dated, since she had a bad childhood, she's not too touchy. So some of the things I say to her could bring back memories. But we love each other dearly and we can never let go. Her reactions to my flirty texts make me laugh. She doesn't expect it and it's so. Damn. CUTE. She's the love of my life. When we meet, I'm gonna cuddle her all the time, hold her in my arms when she's scared. Do her make-up, everything to make her feel safe. I'm getting impatient for the time to come <3
What if there was a cute girl in school? I always trying to make a eye contact to her but it didnt work cuz she's busy😅 and when we have a eye contact i look away and im having a goosebumps... Gosh im so bad at this 😂.. but it turns out she's straight welp im just a lonely potato..
I'm pretty sure my crush is straight (I'm pansexual), so any flirting would probably be taken as just being funny bc we're BFFs. I feel like we could be a really good couple but I'm afraid I'll get friendzoned or all my progression with becoming her best friend will go down the toilet and she won't want to talk to me ;-; Anyways I was talking about this to my bisexual friend and he is like, "make her stare at a rainbow for at least an hour" XD Thanks for reading my boring comment
Eeek I’m bi, but I have a crush on this girl in my grade atm. I had a class with her last year and liked her last year, and I like her this year too, and she’s in one of my classes, and I’m super shy haha. I purposely walked over to her and passed her the papers we were handing out so I had an excuse to say hi, and when I handed it to her and she relied with, “Thank you Princess.” And I swear I screamed internally. She’s a lesbian (pretty sure, I know she at least is interested in girls, I don’t think she’s into guys) and idk what to do bc I want to get to know her more and be friends with her but I’m not sure how. Any tips? :))
Mia Treadwell I’m 14 also and literally no one in my school is out beside like 1-2 people so I literally can’t try to date anyone. I’m. It out either tho but I thought if someone else would come out as gay I could too and start talking to them. But for now I can just sit there and do nothing besides try to find someone online
hey dutchy i was just wondering i noticed there's this girl in my history and english class. she sits two seats away from me in history, while in english she sits across from me. whenever i talk to my friend in history, she always looks over to look at me or maybe just listen to the conversation. it was kinda weird but i didn't really care. BUT THEN in english, she started looking at me across the room! i thought she was just looking at the clock or something (it's right behind me) but when i glanced up at her to check she was looking at me oof 😆 so i'm just wondering if you think she likes me or is just admiring from afar
how do i start a conversation with a girl i like at work?? i think she's also gay or bi, but i don't know for sure. i'm really socially awkward and anxious and want to at least be friends with her but i'm always too scared to talk to her.
I really need ur help Dutchy... 😢 I'm a hidden lesbian ... I'm not out to anyone... I try hard not to pretend that I like girls I don't touch them or don't give them heart eyes etc... but I get responses from lesbian girls like they hit on me I'm good looking too... do I came in gayradar? I have crush on girl.. according to my radar she is gay I didn't show her any sign of crush she kissed me so passionately on my cheeks recently n hug me she used to touch me n she gives me all sign that she is attracted... am I in gayradar ? she is really gay or I'm having some wrong vibes...? she gets jealous she always stays closer to me
So I just got into my first relationship with one of my best friends we are both ofc not straight they are Gender-fluid and bi and I’m Female and Pan. Our relationship started in a weird way, we have been bsf’s for 4yrs and promised if/when we break up we will still be friends and joke abt it. So how it started, we tag each other on insta and lot and we both *love* voltron and they tagged me in a thing and I said “ily even more now (no homo or do I mean homo)” then this stranger replied saying “I don’t even know you but I ship” then my friend said “I ship it too” and I texted them and they said yeah I ship us. Then I replied to the chain at his point saying “yeah you never know we might get together” and we talk EVERY night before bed and they asked me “do you want to date me?” And I was just speechless and I texted my other friends and they responded saying “did they just... omg” so I said yes to them. Now we are dating we know that if we ever break up we will leave it on good terms so we can still be good friends and laugh abt it later on life.
So there's this really cute girl in my school and she gives me super gay vibes, she has short hair and in the school basketball team, idk she just looks like she would grab a girl and pin her to a wall.
Well with me it's pretty much the same thing,but we're actually friends. I guess she likes me but i dunno and I also like her. Just play "the game" with her and look wheather she goes along with it or not. That's pretty much how I deal with stuff like this.
aww if you've known each other for 7 years then long distance may not be so hard as you would have lots of trust in each other and it would make it all the more exciting when you see each other again! How far away would you be moving? Are there ways to see each other?
AHHHHHHSKSKSK last night i told the gal i like that i like her and we’re talking and i’m pumpeddddd. been watching these videos and i got the confidence to tell her. AND IT WORKED!!! so anyway thank you so much💗
Are you a snitch cause you’re out of sight, did I just get lost in the room of requirement or was it just your eyes, are you a dementor because I’d be a criminal for your kiss. Some more Harry Potter pick up lines :)
For a long time, online dating was a club for straight people. Sites like and eHarmony, whose co-founder is notoriously homophobic, had historically excluded LGBTQ communities. Even as new apps revolutionized the online dating world, queer folks were finding that these apps had little to offer in terms of inclusivity, acceptance, and creating space for people with a wide variety of genders and sexualities. Where were the Lesbian, queer, and lesbian dating apps that catered to everyone?
Up until recently, some of the nation has acted as though lesbianism didnt exist outside of porn and Ellen Degeneres, and acted as if girls only turn to dating women if they had a bad experience with a man. This, of course, is not true.
If youre reading this, its probably because youve experienced the frustration with dating sites and apps that claim to be inclusive to all sexual orientations, only to realize that some closeted quirks make it obvious that the straights are the target.
Chances are, at least one person you know has met their partner using a dating app. Male or female, regardless of what you identify as or what you like in bed, we all use them. And yet, most apps are still designed with only straight people in mind. What gives?
By its very premise, which requires the woman in a match to send the first message, Bumble assumes that its users are straight. And as a lesbian woman whos spent a fair amount of time on both Tinder and OkCupid, I can tell you that the apps arent great at weeding out men who dont belong (sorry for the immediate swipe left, Scott, Todd, and John, but I dont know how you got here).