Lesbians on Tinder are THE WORST!
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To clarify, it's called the unicorn hunter because it's a situation where a man wants to bring another woman into their monogamous relationship, but then when she wants to have another man he gets jealous and stops wanting to do that.
I met so many unicorn hunters on Tinder, it's not even funny. Then there were flakes and weird ones who were obviously trying to cheat on somebody. I did, however, meet my girlfriend on Tinder-- so it's not all bad! (Just mostly)
The lesbian is the unicorn, and since lesbians don't like men, this type of lesbian doesn't exist, because unicorns don't exist. Thus the straight couple (unicorn hunters) are searching for a fantasy and not a reality.
I actually know the answer to one of those! They're called Unicorn Hunters because Unicorn is a Polyamorus term for someone who's single and open to joining a per-established relationship with both partners. They're called Unicorns because they're so hard to find some consider them mythical creatures. Although, tbh, Unicorn Hunters wouldn't really be considered Lesbians (if they're with a man, and usually Unicorn Hunters are) because that's... well... bisexual
I have a clingy girlfriend, shes just clingy because she had severe depression and hugs are her way with connecting with me, and she reminds me of when I was young because I would take my little cousins on piggy back rides when we were in a boring store, so now I do that with her so she feels special
Dunno why anyone would want a clingy girlfriend, it's not as romantic as it seems until you need your damn space that they just won't give. 😂😂 I'm completely fine with being alone compared to having someone so clingy and needy. It ain't cute 'n it ain't ever been cute. 🙃
The unicorn hunter hit me right to the core. I once went out on a lunch date with a girl from tinder and she brought her HUSBAND (who I did not know about) and their 2-year-old son (their babysitter canceled; didn't know about him either). Needless to say, I got out of that situation very quickly.
For a long time, online dating was a club for straight people. Sites like and eHarmony, whose co-founder is notoriously homophobic, had historically excluded LGBTQ communities. Even as new apps revolutionized the online dating world, queer folks were finding that these apps had little to offer in terms of inclusivity, acceptance, and creating space for people with a wide variety of genders and sexualities. Where were the Lesbian, queer, and lesbian dating apps that catered to everyone?
Up until recently, some of the nation has acted as though lesbianism didnt exist outside of porn and Ellen Degeneres, and acted as if girls only turn to dating women if they had a bad experience with a man. This, of course, is not true.
If youre reading this, its probably because youve experienced the frustration with dating sites and apps that claim to be inclusive to all sexual orientations, only to realize that some closeted quirks make it obvious that the straights are the target.
Chances are, at least one person you know has met their partner using a dating app. Male or female, regardless of what you identify as or what you like in bed, we all use them. And yet, most apps are still designed with only straight people in mind. What gives?
By its very premise, which requires the woman in a match to send the first message, Bumble assumes that its users are straight. And as a lesbian woman whos spent a fair amount of time on both Tinder and OkCupid, I can tell you that the apps arent great at weeding out men who dont belong (sorry for the immediate swipe left, Scott, Todd, and John, but I dont know how you got here).